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stupid dad is being all pissy today... I dont know why

and for some reason he thinks we have fleas in the house... i DUNO WHY....

hes sprinkling flea stuff everywhere and hes like "I see bugs jumping off me when im at the counnnnterrr"

and im like 'o_O'.

I duno.

Need suggestions...

OK i posted this on a forum but i wanna know what you guys, the nonexistant journal readers think... lol..





My brother is 13 and has problems..

He never cleans up after himself.. He'll leave stuff lying around.. When he plays video games theres controllers, games, and memory cards everywhere!

Today he wanted his friend Howard to come over.. My dad said no, so cory got his stuff around and told my dad he was going down to his house insted. (He lives just down the road) He never even asked if he could go.

He also throws a big baby fit when he doesnt get his way.. Like when he wants to go drive his go-kart and my dad says no because he doesn't want to go outside... Or if he wants something but cant do it.

He never does his responsiblities.. The only thing he has to do around here is empty the dishwasher when the dishes are clean. My dad TELLS him to go do it, but it sits there still full for days while dishes pile up in the sink.

He whines and complains when he is bored.. and will even take of the TV if you were even sitting there watching something. I /NEVER/ watch TV, I've got a lot of things to do. However, on the occasion I DO watch TV, He often changes it so he can play his video games. He argues "You were done watching it, it got over!" and i say to him "Perhaps I wanted to watch what was after" "THEN YOU WOULDA TOLD ME" "I just did" "WELL IM PLAYING"

Also he has an INCREDIBLY short temper.. hes a very angry child.. He will often hit me or throw things at me.. once he even slammed a remote control from his RC car on my head... He is an incredibly large kid, and I cant fight back. He's prolly lower-mid 200's in weight. He refuses to keep his fingernails at a decent length.. and uses them to scratch me.. He once scratched my leg all the way down.. it bled.. I still have a scar.. this was over a year ago.

He has no respect for animals.. When we have to feed our rabbits (we have 9) he'll scream "I DONT CARE I HOPE THEY DIE" When our cats of 13 and 14 years.. and our two newest ones.. both a year old.. He wasnt even upset when they died.. (However becaue of 4 cats dying at once, I was incredibly traumatized.. As my cats and I were very close)

For a long time, he took over my bed because he refused to sleep anywhere else. I either slept in HIS bed or on the floor. (The floor is quite comfortable to me, I wasn't forced there.)



So.. My Mom died in 2005... She was 40.. I've tooken over the role as "mom" and.. my dad doesnt know how to discipline.. at all.

He never had to discipline me when i was a kid because I never DID anything..

I tried getting him into counceling.. I took him to my session once.. My counceler asked him what makes him mad.. he just smiled and blushed and laughed and hes like "I dunno ^^" I told him to go by himself, and he wont. "I HATE MARIANNE (the counceler) SHES STUPID!"


HEEELLLPPP MEEEH XD!

My dad is being incredibly emo today becuase of this!