ALL ABOUT LOOOOVE
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All about... L<3ve!
this was actually a response to someones love troubles.. and I'd like to share it, since I think it's an actually really deep and thought provoking subject..
Do any of you guys have any additional thoughts or comments on the subject? Perhaps some more "deep thinking" Cuz I deep thinking :x
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"-The "In love" / "Love at first sight aka lust" feeling that most people fee...l, that high, that rush... is just hormones excited at a "potential mate".. When you get PAST that, the hormones are gone/less.. you dont feel the rush anymore.. and that's when "Deep love" sets in.. the real, true, emotional-connection - when people stay together after the hormonal rush is gone, it's usually for the long haul.
People that only "Love others" FOR that rush... are people who dont really emotionally love others (at least not yet)
Teenagers are often incapable of understanding the biology behind love.... that the "high" feeling ISNT TRUE love... It's more like... hormonal lust... its the DNA releasing hormones saying "HEY S/HE COULD PASS MY GENETICS ALONG, LETS GET EXCTED!"
Often long enough for the sex to happen (but not always!), then they get "boring" cuz the hormones are no longer there saying "HEY LOOK A MATE! WOOT WOOT!" either because they think they've secured the other one as a "Mate for life" or, it's just done being excited over a potential new mate.
It's a REALLY really deep thing to think about.. and i did a lot of research on love and relationships throughout my life, mainly because I never felt that "Lust" towards people. Sure, i had crushes, but i didnt want to have sex with them.. in fact, I'm "asexual" meaning, i dont find it appealing with ANYONE.... and as far as i knew this was NOT normal.. so i did an ass ton of research to find out why i was broken XDDD
Anyway - Keep going.... keep trucking on... Another person isn't your life, even though it feels like it.. You'll find someone else. someone that loves you for you, not the way you make their hormones THINK they feel.
And keep in high spirits.. When those sort of girls realize that they arent gunna have that "high" throughout an ENTIRE relationship, they may realize that they HAD a gem (you!)... and apologize, and try and smooth things over between you, and possibly start again..
So give her time.... she might come around again"
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What d'ya guys think?
My dad replied to this- "I do my best thinking on the toilet,but thats just me!!!" Lmao.
Extra spicy General tso's chicken.. %*&#@%*(@$(*$@*(%#@$ # <3333333333333333333333333333333333333333
If anyone would like some easy money... (legit! I might add xD) The place i do surveys for (I get $3 per survey, they aren't long, and sometimes send you free samples!)
http://www.pineconeresearch.com/signup/ds710.aspx
They're accepting signups for a brief time, very legitimate company, I've done surveys with them for a long time.
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So just had a "VIA text message" convo where someone said they missed me and all this sort of thing... and i dunno anyones phone number, lol, so I just play along like I know them.... Cuz i dont wanna sound like a jerk...
and then they asked why i hadnt responded to them.. and im like "o_O i havent gotten anything".. so i check all my accts.. and im like "Which acct did you send it to?"
"i sent it to the Jacob Jones one"
and im like.. WOAH you musta got the wrong number, ROFL
this was actually a response to someones love troubles.. and I'd like to share it, since I think it's an actually really deep and thought provoking subject..
Do any of you guys have any additional thoughts or comments on the subject? Perhaps some more "deep thinking" Cuz I deep thinking :x
-----
"-The "In love" / "Love at first sight aka lust" feeling that most people fee...l, that high, that rush... is just hormones excited at a "potential mate".. When you get PAST that, the hormones are gone/less.. you dont feel the rush anymore.. and that's when "Deep love" sets in.. the real, true, emotional-connection - when people stay together after the hormonal rush is gone, it's usually for the long haul.
People that only "Love others" FOR that rush... are people who dont really emotionally love others (at least not yet)
Teenagers are often incapable of understanding the biology behind love.... that the "high" feeling ISNT TRUE love... It's more like... hormonal lust... its the DNA releasing hormones saying "HEY S/HE COULD PASS MY GENETICS ALONG, LETS GET EXCTED!"
Often long enough for the sex to happen (but not always!), then they get "boring" cuz the hormones are no longer there saying "HEY LOOK A MATE! WOOT WOOT!" either because they think they've secured the other one as a "Mate for life" or, it's just done being excited over a potential new mate.
It's a REALLY really deep thing to think about.. and i did a lot of research on love and relationships throughout my life, mainly because I never felt that "Lust" towards people. Sure, i had crushes, but i didnt want to have sex with them.. in fact, I'm "asexual" meaning, i dont find it appealing with ANYONE.... and as far as i knew this was NOT normal.. so i did an ass ton of research to find out why i was broken XDDD
Anyway - Keep going.... keep trucking on... Another person isn't your life, even though it feels like it.. You'll find someone else. someone that loves you for you, not the way you make their hormones THINK they feel.
And keep in high spirits.. When those sort of girls realize that they arent gunna have that "high" throughout an ENTIRE relationship, they may realize that they HAD a gem (you!)... and apologize, and try and smooth things over between you, and possibly start again..
So give her time.... she might come around again"
----
What d'ya guys think?
My dad replied to this- "I do my best thinking on the toilet,but thats just me!!!" Lmao.
Extra spicy General tso's chicken.. %*&#@%*(@$(*$@*(%#@$ # <33333333333333333333333333333
If anyone would like some easy money... (legit! I might add xD) The place i do surveys for (I get $3 per survey, they aren't long, and sometimes send you free samples!)
http://www.pineconeresearch.com/signup/ds710.aspx
They're accepting signups for a brief time, very legitimate company, I've done surveys with them for a long time.
---
So just had a "VIA text message" convo where someone said they missed me and all this sort of thing... and i dunno anyones phone number, lol, so I just play along like I know them.... Cuz i dont wanna sound like a jerk...
and then they asked why i hadnt responded to them.. and im like "o_O i havent gotten anything".. so i check all my accts.. and im like "Which acct did you send it to?"
"i sent it to the Jacob Jones one"
and im like.. WOAH you musta got the wrong number, ROFL
